What am I missing? If our decisions and intentional actions are not selfish in origin, what, please is their origin? What unselfish place is there within us from which our decisions and intentional actions come?
If you believe that our decisions and intentional actions come from a holy, spiritual place which is inherently unselfish - a place within us but not us - I bow to that belief. I think you are blessed to have it. That is a belief by which I have not been graced.