Whose judgment of the quality of my life - moment to moment or Big Picture - matters most?
If I yearn for something, who decides whether to learn - to grow - from the yearning or just to feel sorry for myself?
When something is unjust, offensive or painful to me or to others, who can choose to do something to ameliorate the situation rather than focus on "poor me?"
If I specially love how I feel under conditions NOT present, who can decide to accept the present conditions and even to be grateful for them compared to the worse that might be but is not?
